Medical moneys

Apr. 28th, 2026 11:59 pm
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Today’s theme was the cost and complications of the cost of medical care. It started with J’s favorite streamer running a GoFundMe campaign to help pay for their cat’s upcoming cancer treatment. Octavia has a nasal lymphoma tumor, and there’s a special kind of radiation that is well tolerated and generally quite successful, but the overall cost is usually prohibitive: $15,000. They dote on their cat and decided to pay it anyway, which was going to eat up all of their savings (which is especially problematic given that her husband’s whole work team was laid off last year). They hoped that the GoFundMe might raise $1000 or so… and they were in tears to have the campaign surpass $21,000 within two hours.

Meanwhile, we are still struggling to get J’s colonoscopy properly paid for by the insurance company – the problem is that the hospital has outsourced its billing department and the people are agreeable on the phone but never follow through. He’s been trying for more than three months to get them to correct the coding. Grr. Anyway, I’ve now drafted letters for him to the CEO of the hospital and to the insurance company – one would think that the fact that the other two providers had correctly coded their charges for the same event would matter, but it may not. I feel strongly that we need to follow through with this to the very end, especially the part about letting the hospital administration know how bad this billing department is, because other patients won’t have the same resources we do to fight back when mistakes like this are made.

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Apr. 29th, 2026 09:22 am
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The Last...

Movie I watched:
in the cinema: Project Hail Mary (2026)
on (my friend's) TV: Percy Jackson: Sea of Monsters (2013)
Series I finished: Percy Jackson and the Olympians, Season 2 (2026)
Book I finished: Daughter of the Deep, by Rick Riordan (2021)
Book I bought:
bought outright: Warhorse, by Timothy Zahn (1990)
pre-ordered: Call Me Traitor, by Everina Maxwell (1 Dec 2026)
Book I received as a gift: Amsterdam, by Russell Shorto (2013) - given for Christmas 2023 according to my booklog, still languishing on the TBR
Food I ate: pressed nut+fruit snack bar to finish off my post-hockey-practice meal in the small hours this morning
Meal I cooked: porridge for Nico's breakfast this morning
Drink I had: pepsi max
Song I listened to: "Castle of Glass" by Linkin Park
Album I listened to: Hadestown OBCR
Playlist I listened to: "three-plus years in love (with hockey)" - which reminds me I need to figure out where Living on a Prayer fits into it, as we ended up belting it out as a team on the bench on Saturday, and yes it needs to go in (unless I start a new playlist for my fourth season ...)
Concert I went to: my friend and teammate's gig in Jesus College bar last month
Game I played: does ice hockey count? does Duolingo count? (though I gave up on it last year for being too gamified and no longer teaching me). I literally can't remember when I last played a board game and I don't really do computer games.
Person I talked to: Nico
Person I texted:
Individual: Charles
Groupchat: Kodiaks 2 leadership

Just One Thing (29 April 2026)

Apr. 29th, 2026 09:31 am
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished! Extra credit: find someone in the comments and give them props for what they achieved!

Nothing is too big, too small, too strange or too cryptic. And in case you'd rather do this in private, anonymous comments are screened. I will only unscreen if you ask me to.

Go!

Three Weeks for Dreamwidth: Painting

Apr. 29th, 2026 01:30 am
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This year during Three Weeks for Dreamwidth, I'm writing about reading as a way of becoming an expert in a given subject. Read Part 1: Introduction to Becoming an Expert, Part 2: Architecture, Part 3: Dance, Part 4: Music.


Three Weeks for Dreamwidth Part 5: Painting

Painting is a visual art based on meaningful marks. I'll include both drawing and painting here, as they use some of the same materials to similar ends. Popular media include acrylic paint, charcoals, colored pencils, ink, oil paint, and watercolor. It's really a spectrum because some media can be used for both, like watercolor pencils or ink. All known human cultures make art, hence the huge range of drawing and painting styles. Here on Dreamwidth, check out [community profile] art, [community profile] drawesome, [community profile] everykindofcraft, or [community profile] justcreate. See also lists of Drawing and Graphics communities for more ideas.


Three Weeks for Dreamwidth April 25-May 15

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Wandering The Prison

Apr. 29th, 2026 07:40 am
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 I dreamed that a relative- the one who has just fallen out with me- was banged up in a prison in a Mediterranean town and I was visiting with a family party. I had brought pictures with me to hang on the cell walls. The warder told me short nails were admissablele but long nails forbidden- and showed me his deformed fingernail which had he said had been bitten by an inmate he had mistakenly thought he had tamed.

It was huge, ancient prison, rather beautifull, with big high ceilinged rooms, doorways with sculpted surrounds and courtyards open to the sky. I guessed it had once been a bishop's palace. I wandered off and then realised I couldn't find my way back. I had a child with me who was at once my younger son, my grandson and an imp. Security was lax: one could walk out into the sunny town square and back in again without being challenged. In one large space nuts and potato crisps had been scattered over the floor in imitation of a beach and a Peter Sellers movie was showing on a screen at one end. In another, which was more like a hospital ward, but still enormous, a teenage girl was lying asleep on a couch. The imp went over and hugged her and her family were displeased and handed him back to me. 

We entered a courtyard in which prisoners in blue jumpsuits were doing exercises- possibly relgious in nature. The man in charge told me to get out. I told him I was visiting my relative and I was lost. He gestured down a corridor and said,"Go consult the notice board." I said. "It's alright for people who know the place and can find their way around, but I'm a stranger and find it bewilderng. It's a maze.......

Cuddle Party

Apr. 29th, 2026 01:13 am
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Everyone needs contact comfort sometimes. Not everyone has ample opportunities for this in facetime. So here is a chance for a cuddle party in cyberspace. Virtual cuddling can help people feel better.

We have a cuddle room that comes with fort cushions, fort frames, sheets for draping, and a weighted blanket. A nest full of colorful egg pillows sits in one corner. There is a basket of grooming brushes, hairbrushes, and styling combs. A bin holds textured pillows. There is a big basket of craft supplies along with art markers, coloring pages, and blank paper. The kitchen has a popcorn machine. Labels are available to mark dietary needs, recipe ingredients, and level of spiciness. Here is the bathroom, open to everyone. There is a lawn tent and an outdoor hot tub. Bathers should post a sign for nude or clothed activity. Come snuggle up!

Meme from Impala-Chick

Apr. 28th, 2026 10:54 pm
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The Last...

Movie I watched: Persuasion (2007)
Series I finished: The Other Bennet Sister (2026)
Book I finished: The Once and Future Riot by Joe Sacco (2024)
Book I bought: Cards of Grief by Jane Yolen (1984)
Book I received as a gift: Not sure, I've had a "Dear God, I have too many books already!" standing comment on gifts for some years now.
Food I ate: Okonomiyaki.
Meal I cooked: Same as above.
Drink I had: Other than water, coffee with cream. If alcohol, rum and orange juice a couple days ago.
Song I listened to: "Everything's Going to Be Alright" by Beverley Knight.
Album I listened to: J.S. Bach's Goldberg Variations by Angela Hewitt.
Playlist I listened to: I don't really playlist.
Concert I went to: Lennie Gallant last fall? Maybe?
Game I played: Civilisation IV: Beyond the Sword
Person I talked to: Nenya.
Person I texted: A neighbour lady.
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2026/064: Silent Spring — Rachel Carson

...genetic deterioration through man-made agents is the menace of our time, the last and greatest danger to our civilization. [ch 13]

Published in 1962, this book had a massive impact on the environmental movement -- indeed, may be said to have kickstarted it. Silent Spring inspired the creation of Greenpeace and Friends of the Earth, as well as influencing scientists, naturalists and politicians, from David Attenborough to Al Gore.

Carson relates, in horrific and exhaustive detail, the damages done to the natural world by pesticides such as DDT. Read more... )

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Apr. 29th, 2026 04:42 am

Poem: "Always Guided by Passion"

Apr. 28th, 2026 11:29 pm
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This poem came out of the January 6, 2026 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by a prompt from [personal profile] see_also_friend. It also fills "The End of the World" square in my 1-1-26 card for the Public Domain Day Bingo fest. This poem has been sponsored by a pool with [personal profile] fuzzyred. It belongs to the Shiv thread of the Polychrome Heroics series. It follows "Cause a Riot of Color."

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Based on the general fund poll, "No Faster or Firmer Friendships" has 10 new verses. Josué reads a funny poem to Maria-Vera.

Precious Time

Apr. 28th, 2026 09:21 pm
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Jenni recently returned from an out-of-state trip, and I was lucky to be able to meet up with her for lunch today. I picked her up at her home at 11:30 am, and we went to Elephants on Cedar Hills. I’ve been to Elephants Delicatessen in Cedar Hills a number of times, but Jenni had never been at all, so it was fun to watch her explore all the offerings.

After examining the entire store, we ordered lunch. I had a grilled cheese sandwich and two soups (half-pints). I got the Tomato Orange (a perfect pairing with grilled cheese) and I also got a Clam Chowder, as I’d not tried it there before. Jenni got a Spiced Lentil pint and an additional order of bread. The clam chowder tasted fine, but I prefer a very creamy chowder, and I probably won’t get the clam chowder again. Jenni really liked her soup and bread.

We chatted about everything. And when we were done with lunch, I drove us over to the Nike campus, where we took a long walk from the Hollister Trail to the Tektronix campus and back. Our walk was over 3 miles. And lots and lots of chatting. I love our chats.

After we finished walking, I took us back to Elephants Deli so that Jenni could buy a couple of meals to take home. And then I took her home. We were finished at 3 pm. It had been a very, very good lunch / walk.

The reason for Jenni’s out-of-state trip is that she and her spouse are planning to move within the next year, and they were scouting a location. I’m fully supportive, as I want them both to be very happy with wherever they are living. It’s sort of exciting reviewing the possibilities.

Of course, I will be very sad when they move away. This entire year I’ve been super-appreciating the time we spend together. Every visit, every chat is automatically a cherished, golden memory - and I’m fully aware we won’t be having these moments together after their move. I know I’ve been spoiled for quite a few years – being walking distance from Jenni’s house – and I replay the good times in my mind. As I always say, I’m the luckiest person I know.
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Kitchen Helpers
By Dialecticdreamer/Sarah Williams
Part 1 of 1, complete
Word count (story only):


:: Shiv and Heron are getting together for another monthly box of goodies, but Dairinne’s presence brings several complications. The help is both immediate and appreciated. Part of the Shiv and the Finn Family story arcs this story is part of the Polychrome Heroics universe, written from a prompt by [personal profile] fuzzyred for the Magpie Monday for April of 2026. The way it developed, the idea focused more on the fluff and fun, so it makes a wonderful freebie for the Feathering the Nest prompt call, too. Thank you! ::




Dairinne marched toward the stairs in Blues Moon, her little arms crossed over her pot belly and a tiny scowl on her face. Shiv glanced back where Heron was wrangling with the outer door, then hurried to catch up to the determined, heavy strides taken in shoes small enough to fit easily in Shiv’s palm.

The next problem hit when she turned left instead of right,a nd by the time Shiv caught up to her, she was marching down to the basement. One foot shifted down to the next step, then its mate followed. Step. Pause. Step. Pause.
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Poem: "The Doom Puff"

Apr. 28th, 2026 10:34 pm
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This poem came out of the April 7, 2026 Poetry Fishbowl. It was inspired by a prompt from [personal profile] nsfwords. It has been sponsored by the general fund poll. This poem belongs to the series Monster House.

Warning: Do not read with mouth full.

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Library Update #27: Space for Shizu

Apr. 28th, 2026 08:37 pm
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For the duration of the Library Project, Shizu has been exiled to the driveway, while the garage served as staging / storage area for inbound and outbound stuff. Even as the library was completed, things that used to be in the dining room, living room, home office, and family room ended up in the garage as there was no longer a place for them in the house. I had to do a major reorganization / cleanup of the garage to restore the space needed to bring Shizu back.

The Garage )
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It's been quite a while since I updated; it's kind of embarrassing how much I've fallen down on the job of posting. I had all these thoughts about The Pitt (I feel like I am watching/fanning a different show than anyone else and I'm having a hard time wanting to discuss it with anyone because I feel so weird and out of step; basically I love a lot of the characters or events others seem to hate and I feel a lot like Abed in Community: I guess I just like liking stuff) but then things kind of took a turn anyway.

My best friend and little buddy, Blues, seemed to take a sudden turn for the worse last weekend, and by Monday I was worried enough that I started calling the home euthanasia vets that friends had used. We made an appointment for Wednesday morning, but I wasn't sure he would last that long. I spent the next two days just trying to do anything that would make him happy or comfortable, as he was clearly having a hard time. He mostly wanted to be in the sun on the deck, as we were blessed with quite a few days in a row with sunshine, which is rare at this time of year in Seattle. Then I tried to find long things to watch on TV where I wouldn't want to get up and move around so he could sleep on my lap for as long as possible. Aliens director's cut ftw.

He got quite perky on Wednesday morning and yowled till I let him out--in the pouring rain, shaking my head forever at him and his obsession with being on or under his beloved deck--and then the vet came. I had a lot of doubts that I was doing the right thing because he'd been so much livelier, but she pointed out some pain signs and other things (and he was still really wobbly too) and I decided to go ahead. I honestly think he was gone with the sedative before the pentobarbitol even came along.

The house is so empty. I talked to him all day long, we had all these weird little rituals and I picked him up and smooched him dozens of times a day, and at night he was always on my left side and now when I put my hand down there, I have no kitty to pet or tummy to rub. I can't stand not being able to kiss a kitty head. He loved endless tummy rubs and toebean rubs--he was not one of those cats who ask you to scritch their tummy and then try to rip your face off after one minute; you could literally never stop scratching his belly and he would be fine with it. He hated being brushed, but you could play with his feet, his tail, his ears, his nose, and the scritches, and he was fine. Every time I get up, it's just so... There's no kitty greeting me and demanding food. Or winding through my legs and tripping me and nearly killing me. He was sometimes a very challenging cat, as anyone who's been on my friends list probably read over the years (the worst was the bite that almost put me in the hospital when I also had an allergic reaction to the antibiotic), but the good far outweighed the bad.

I don't know what I want to do. I've only lived a few years of my life without a pet. But I have no idea how long I'll be doing okay with my treatment and I'm not sure I'm feeling like looking or fostering anyway right now. It's so lonely, and he was all I had left. He was my sweetheart.

Here we go (again!)

Apr. 28th, 2026 10:40 pm
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Name: C.K. or Chester
Age group: mid-to-late 30s -- 36 specifically.
Country: USA
Subscription/Access Policy: 18+ only. No Harry Potter fans. No antis. No Chappell Roan stans (I see how y'all are treating my man and I don't like it.)  For a more in-depth 'about me', follow this link.

Main Fandoms: Culture Club (the greatest band of the '80s! I write fic for them and sometimes cross-post deep dives from my website on them.)
Other Fandoms: Linkin Park, WWE, Smoky Mountain Wrestling
Fannish Interests: Fanfiction mostly, and doing deep dives on my many OCs.
OTPs and Ships: Culture Club: Boy George/Jon Moss, Roy Hay/Mikey Craig; Linkin Park: Bennoda [Chester Bennington/Mike Shinoda]; Wrestling: Hartbreak (Bret Hart/Shawn Michaels), Shawnter (Shawn Michaels/Hunter Hearst-Helmsley), Candy (Cody Rhodes/Randy Orton); and then I have a lot of ships in my fandoms involving OCs. 

Favourite Movies: The Room (lol), Pretty in Pink, Borat, Major League, man there's so many and I can't think of all of them.
TV Shows: I actually don't watch TV.
Books: Broken Harts: The Life and Death of Owen Hart by Martha Hart
Music: I listen to a lot of '80s. My faves are Culture Club (and yes, that means I like Boy George's solo work too), a-ha, Depeche Mode, Yazoo, Information Society, New Order, The Cure, A Flock of Seagulls, Real Life, Johnny Hates Jazz, Mr. Mister, Oingo Boingo. Then outside of '80s music I like Massive Ego, $uicideboy$, Linkin Park, and Fort Minor.
Games: Sonic the Hedgehog (1, 2, 3), Sonic & Knuckles, Sonic 3D Blast, Pokemon, The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, GTA series, Hitman series, WWE series, Tomb Raider (original games series), Crash Bandicoot 1 & 2, Legacy of Kain series
Comics/Anime/Misc: Not really into much comics or anime, but my fave anime is Death Note.

Daily Happiness

Apr. 28th, 2026 07:26 pm
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1. Last night when I took a shower the water never got that hot, and I thought it odd because while Carla had taken a shower, it was hours before and should have warmed back up within 15-20 minutes. Then this morning I did dishes and the water never got above warm-ish, and that was even having it fully on hot and not using the cold tap at all.

I went out to check the water heater only to find that sometime between when it was installed (eight years ago, according to my journal) and now, the sort of shed/add-on thing that it's inside had shifted slightly so that the door was now sitting below the adjoining back steps and couldn't open at all. Thankfully the door is wood, and we have a small saw, so I sawed off the bottom bit of the door so it could open (it is old and crappy anyway, so this is not damaging it or anything).

The water heater has a thing on the front that helpfully tells you what the issue is if the light is red and blinks X number of times. It was blinking 7 times, which is gas or valve failure, so we called a plumber and they said that replacing the broken part would cost like $400 plus over a thousand in labor, which seemed ridiculous. A new one is about $800, and they said we could go get one and they could install it, but they were quoting like $1800 for the replacement and removal, which again seems ridiculous. In my journal entry eight years ago, we were charged for one hour labor and free removal, which was a different plumber. I know prices have gone up a lot in the intervening years but that seems excessive.

So since I didn't think we'd be able to get a water heater in our car to bring it home anyway, I told them we'd just pay for their diagnostics today and get back to them. I ordered a new water heater from Home Depot and they delivered it today and we called the plumber from last time to have them come out tomorrow. They couldn't give us an estimate over the phone, but I feel it can't help but be cheaper than today's guys.

Anyway, we still have some warm-ish water we can at least use for washing dishes, and maybe just save the showers for tomorrow after they install the new one.

2. I was already planning on working from home today, which worked out well for all the plumbing stuff.

3. First puzzle finished since getting back from vacation:



This one was a lot of fun. I think when I bought it I saw some other similar ones, so I might have to check those out.

4. I've been sleeping better and waking up at my usual time again for several days in a row now, so I'm feeling a lot better about that. Now that I have this morning walk routine, it was really throwing me off to be waking up so much later.

5. Cutie Molly.

Isn't It Punny.....

Apr. 28th, 2026 09:17 pm
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April 28th.....


When You Have A

Bladder Infection...


Urine Trouble.

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