because the *moment* someone like me hints that I might not trust that the other person is Benevolent In All Ways, they may take that Dastardly Insult as an excuse to become terrible. --And this disparity in our situations makes feel like I'm going to fall into a thousand pieces ... and yet I'm not the one living with it as viscerally harmful daily assault... no words can express how wrong that is.
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Date: 2020-02-11 06:16 am (UTC)