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asakiyume ([personal profile] asakiyume) wrote2022-11-21 12:33 pm

a meme! a meme!

I got five questions from [personal profile] osprey_archer!

1. What's a skill that you're proud of having?

... I'm realizing that it's hard to write an answer to this because as soon as I start composing in a direction, I think, Now you really sound like an insufferable asshole.

Am I perhaps proud of the skill of being able to guess when I'm about to sound like an insufferable asshole? ... Mmmm, I am not particularly proud of that. And I'm not even sure if my assessment is correct, so.

So ... skill implies something that you've worked on and honed--so not, say, a one-off accomplishment, and not something that's just part of your personality without your particularly exerting yourself.

Okay, how's this: I don't know if I'm proud, exactly, but it gives me great joy and exuberance to have discovered, in my fifties, that it's possible to learn multiple languages more or less simultaneously well enough to read them and attempt rudimentary communication in them. It literally feels like having developed a new sense, like my brain has changed its shape. ... Other people knew this delight from a young age, but not me. And there's something about coming to it later in life--you can be very consciously grateful, appreciative.

2. What's a treasured memory?

Sleeping together as a family on summer nights in Japan--the tactile-ness. The in-out of our breathing, together; our hearts are beating, together. Our foreheads are touching, or someone has an arm flung this way, or someone's toes are touching someone else's calves. Outside, insects are singing.

3. Do you have any unusual yearly traditions?

Not really; I have a hard time repeating things cyclically. For a while our family did Boston's Walk for Hunger yearly, but that's not a very unusual thing, and anyway, we since stopped. There are certain things I like to forage when the time is right (cattail pollen in June, chestnuts and hickory nuts in September and October), but I'm not consistent.

4. If you could have a telepathic companion animal, what kind of animal would you want?
I waver between something small enough to sit on my shoulder and something large enough that I could drape my arm over its shoulders. Much as it would be fun to have a telepathic connection with a dolphin (hello Ring of Endless Light) and fascinating to have one with a celphalopod, I think I'd prefer to have a connection with a terrestrial animal because delightful as water is, I can't breathe in it or even keep air in my lungs for as long as dolphins and other water-living mammals can. OTOH, if there are some telepathic marine creatures out there who are hankering for a connection, I withdraw that caveat! Come to me, friends!

... I guess not someone really small, like a tardigrade. I want to be able to see my companion. Probably someone adapted to the type of climate I live in--hello coyotes, bobcats, foxes, bear, deer, squirrels, chipmunks, mice. And I don't want to exclude birds, though I think I would want a very friendly type of bird for an animal companion--someone like a catbird or chickadee, or like the starling that drank the last of my sister's wine the other day.


5. Favorite museum?

Without a doubt, the Eric Carle Museum of Picture Book Art.

Anyone else like some questions?
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[personal profile] raven 2022-11-21 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I also learned the delight of language learning as an adult and it is really such a pleasure. I would like questions, if you're up for it!
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[personal profile] minoanmiss 2022-11-21 06:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I love your answers and you are very very far down the list of anyone I would ever call an insufferable asshole.

I think I'm ready for some questions.
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[personal profile] minoanmiss 2022-11-22 03:13 am (UTC)(link)

thank you :) I answered them.

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[personal profile] cmcmck 2022-11-21 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, go on then! :o)
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[personal profile] sovay 2022-11-21 09:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Okay, how's this: I don't know if I'm proud, exactly, but it gives me great joy and exuberance to have discovered, in my fifties, that it's possible to learn multiple languages more or less simultaneously well enough to read them and attempt rudimentary communication in them.

Your brain does literally change its shape when you learn a new language, and I am so glad for you.

Your treasured memory is lovely.
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[personal profile] mallorys_camera 2022-11-21 09:52 pm (UTC)(link)
What [personal profile] sovay says. You are the least insufferable asshole of anyone I know. In fact, "Asakiyume" and "insufferable asshole" are antonyms! 😀

Ohhhhhh! Great meme! I wanna play!
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[personal profile] sartorias 2022-11-21 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Nodding hard at your answers to one and two, though I enjoyed all.
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[personal profile] sartorias 2022-11-21 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I love all museums of beautiful things, but my absolute faves are period rooms.
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[personal profile] sartorias 2022-11-21 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I've added it--I will mull and expand! Thank you!
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[personal profile] larryhammer 2022-11-21 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Yo!
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[personal profile] larryhammer 2022-11-22 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Done.
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[personal profile] sartorias 2022-11-21 10:18 pm (UTC)(link)
And I'll put in for questions!
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[personal profile] queenoftheskies 2022-11-22 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
What a wonderful post, Francesca! I loved your answers and I love the questions you're asking others. I'm definitely going to come back to see how everyone replies!
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[personal profile] queenoftheskies 2022-11-22 03:27 am (UTC)(link)
I'll have to see if I can check out their blogs, then. You asked great questions.

I fear I am not interesting enough for questions, LOL.
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[personal profile] queenoftheskies 2022-11-23 04:53 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you, Francesca. I would love to answer while I'm off for the holidays.
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[personal profile] teenybuffalo 2022-11-22 01:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Me please!
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[personal profile] osprey_archer 2022-11-22 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I feel that a dolphin would be a difficult telepathic companion animal (would you have to live on a boat to stay near your dolphin companion?) but an amazing telepathic friend that you see once a year at the dolphin equivalent of a con. Not a constant companion, but still good for occasional soul communion.

My dream telepathic companion animal has always been a fox, although I definitely see the appeal of a telepathic companion animal small enough to fit in a pocket. Always worried about how one would feed a large telepathic companion animal, though. Yes, a snow leopard would be badass, but the grocery bills!

The Eric Carle is my favorite museum too! It's just the perfect size for a museum. You can see everything without getting utterly worn out.
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[personal profile] amaebi 2022-11-22 07:57 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, the aspect of a museum is a major factor for me as well! I haven't seen the Eric Carle Museum yet, though.
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[personal profile] amaebi 2022-11-22 10:31 pm (UTC)(link)
I have been wanting to revisit western Massachusetts for over two decades now. How ice flies.
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[personal profile] amaebi 2022-11-22 07:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I love your comprehensiveness in ruling out tardigrades.
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[personal profile] amaebi 2022-11-22 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I hadn't even heard of that cartoon, sadly.

I'm afraid that near muteness is my gift to DW, but thanks anyway.