It's an important conversation, but a difficult one too because it requires us to doubt what we've already done, and doubts can lead to regrets, and sometimes regrets motivate us to make changes that might or might not be better for us and our families...

There are things I regret doing and not doing with Dev. There are times I didn't push him to do something that I now think I should have pushed for because, in trying to "correct" what I considered a mistake my parents made with me, I think I went too far on the pendulum-swing by not offering *enough* direction. So now, like you, I'm wondering if I created something I need to fix or merely created something different! :)